Charity consist in speaking and thinking good aboUt others. Your words and deeds have to be in harmony while speaking about the other person. Speak no harmful words which can hurt the other person. Empty and silly arguments can go against charity . Let your dwords be of encouragement to each other. Be a good listener and inspire others and motivate them to do good that is real charity than giving money or matterial help. Try not to gossip and avoid grudges against others. Even when things go wrong donot loose your temper and provoke the other . Be kind and forgiving. This is the test ofcharity.